One of my greatest loves is the love I have for my daughter, her husband, and their two children: my grandchildren. This ever changing, ever deepening, ever evolving love is a wonder to behold.
An important component to showing love is the physical action involved in that expression. My myotonic dystrophy limits the physical interactions I can have with my grandchildren. The adults understand when I am limited in my abilities. But, how can children understand? It breaks my heart. And in the breaking, a new love is released: a love of encouragement and facilitation.
Without the necessary sadness and pain, my evolution may not have occurred. Think about it: love of another can be the catalyst to new discoveries. In the sacrifice of self, you find yourself.
You're totally right: I don't think children can understand, but I think that's why they are so free. They love people without really comprehending disabilities, age or race. Both of your grandchildren can see & feel your love.
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